Wear yourself with Confidence

The word confidence itself boost us with strength within us, make us belief to have faith in our self but do we really wear our confidence. What is Confidence? Confidence is a feeling of having faith in our self and relying on others too, a strength to stand out whosoever you are ,whatever you are. What is wearing your self with confidence? It means whenever you walk you walk with your head up, but for that first you have to believe in yourself, but we didn't do this. Actually , Why we loosen our confidence or why we are not able to carry our self with confidence because in actual we are not wearing it. Why it happens? It happens with many of us. Due to body weight issues, skin disorders like spots on body, face, sometimes disorders in body structures like low shoulders, being on too skinny, dark complexion, sometimes voice, speaking tone, facial features ( heavy nose, thin lips etc) and the people behind these issues who make us loose our confidence, make us down like somebody says you are fat this dress is so tight for you, you are too skinny, you are so dark don't try light colour clothes, your voice is so hard to listen, your clothes are not trendy, you are so old fashioned, just look at yourself you don't look good, you have spots on your skin and many other harsh expressions thrown by people which loosen our confidence.

 The problem is not in us the problem is in the eyes of people who look at us with flaws. The point is we should not get affect by what others says to us or the way they look to us because they are no one to judge us. We are our God's creation, he has given us this structure or these effects in us. They are not and they not even meant to judge us, due to these body shaming effects we get victimised and started running away from ourselves. The understanding is to love yourself and love the way you are, accept yourself  and embody yourself with the qualities you have, then see the changes around you nobody can let you down, When you wear it , wear it with confidence and it is your confidence. There is a very impressive example of confidence a model named "Winnie Harlow" who with skin disorder break all the barriers for modelling and excelling her field with confidence. Salute to her for her confidence, because she wears herself with confidence the need is to wear your self with confidence whosoever you are, whatever you have be happy and  be confident love the way you are, accept yourself.

"We all are part of crowd, but the one who wears itself with confidence stands out from crowd"